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9 months old

Little Explorers in Action

Play ideas, a book, a song and a little encouragement for your 9 month old, from Maddie.

Maddie

By Maddie, early childhood educator and Mum

3 min read · Updated

In this guide

Hello there, wonderful parent!

Here we are at the 9th month, a time when your little one is likely crawling (but totally ok if they are not!) into new adventures and pulling themselves up with great curiosity. It can be a bit of a whirlwind trying to keep up with this newfound mobility. I remember thinking every time, “Wait… what do I do now? Oh yeah, never leave them alone!" It can feel daunting like you'll never get anything done again, but like every stage, it settles, you find your groove, and somehow it passes far too quickly.

This month's newsletter brings you gentle ideas to nurture learning through play and connection. These aren’t things you have to do, just little nudges to help you savour the simple, everyday moments with your child.

Activity 1: Container Play

How: Gather a few of your baby's favorite toys and place them in a container, like a cup or tin. Let your baby pull the toys out one by one, drop them in and tip them out. If you still have the heuristic basket, your could use this (or even a bin of toilet rolls).

Why: This simple activity encourages fine motor skills and introduces basic problem-solving as they figure out how to retrieve their toys. Plus, it’s a fun way to explore! They love just taking things out of containers, drawers, cupboards anything.

From Maddie's guide for your 9 month old

Activity 2: Roll a Ball

How: Sit on the floor facing your baby and gently roll a ball towards them. Wait and encourage them to roll it back to you.

Why: This game introduces early concepts of turn-taking and boosts hand-eye coordination. It’s a tiny step towards the wonderful world of cooperative play!

From Maddie's guide for your 9 month old

Nursery Rhyme: Five Little Ducks

Five little ducks went out one day,

Over the hills and far away.

Mother duck said, “Quack, quack, quack, quack.”

But only four little ducks came back.

Four little ducks went out one day,

Over the hills and far away.

Mother duck said, “Quack, quack, quack, quack.”

But only three little ducks came back.

(Continue with the rhyme until all ducks return.)

This playful rhyme is perfect for those wiggly nappy changes or a cosy bath time giggle session. And who doesn’t love an enthusiastic “quack, quack!” here and there?

Book of the Month: Goodnight Moon

This timeless classic combines enchanting illustrations with a soothing cadence, perfect for bedtime or quiet cuddle moments. Not every page has to be read, sometimes just pointing and naming things is enough. Whatever way you choose, it’s your voice and presence that mean the most.

Remember: This one and many similar ones, can often be found at your local library. The library is also a beautiful place to visit, especially on rainy or extra-hot days. Libraries aren’t the quiet “shhh” spaces they once were; many now warmly welcome children with story times, music sessions, and even toy setups where you and your little one can stay, play, and make new friends (and its all free)!

From Maddie's guide for your 9 month old

Did You Know?

Rolling a ball back and forth is one of their first “games with rules” for your little one. Such a simple activity, yet it teaches early cooperation and a delightful sense of turn-taking! It can be extended in so many ways for different ages, stages and multiple children.

Social & Emotional Skill Building

This month, try using simple phrases like “Your turn!” and “My turn!” during play. These tiny conversations help your little one build an early understanding of sharing and fairness, setting the stage for more complex social interactions later on.

Photo Op: A sweet little photo opportunity at this age is placing your phone standing upright on the ground and setting a timer. Sit back slightly with your baby and watch their excitement as they notice themselves on the screen and crawl towards it. It creates a lovely, natural selfie moment while capturing their curiosity and joy in the simplest way.

From Maddie's guide for your 9 month old

Remember, amidst the busyness and excitement, your presence is what they cherish most. You’re sowing seeds of connection, learning, and love, one tiny giggle, one little game, one soft snuggle at a time.

No pressure, but if you’re ever curious for more play ideas, feel free to peek here, only when you're ready, of course. You’re doing enough, exactly as you are. 🌟

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