1 year, 5 months old
Steps of Curiosity
Play ideas, a book, a song and a little encouragement for your 17 month old, from Maddie.
By Maddie, early childhood educator and Mum
4 min read · Updated
In this guide
Hello there, lovely parent!
It seems like just yesterday your little one was taking their first steps, doesn't it? At 17 months, those little feet are probably moving faster than you ever imagined, and so is that growing curiosity! Maybe your days are a mix of toddler explorations, endless energy, and those sweet moments where you catch a glimpse of their tiny personality shining through, life is very busy and a lot of fun.
Amidst the spills and giggles, there’s a lot of figuring out happening, for both of you. You’re doing more than you know, even on the days that don't feel like it's all coming together.
This newsletter is a gentle reminder that sharing everyday moments builds valuable foundations. What you’re doing is enough, the boring, the fun and all the stuff in between, it matters. Here are a few ideas for when you're in the mood to sprinkle a little bit extra into your day.
Activity 1: Scoop & Pour
How: Gather some dry rice or pasta and a few cups, containers, spoons etc. Set them up on a tray. Let your little one scoop and pour to their heart’s content. The bigger the tray the better, those tuff trays are great, but their not a necessity (and somehow the contents still managing escaping those). Even a couple big roasting or cooking trays do the job.
Why: All that scooping and pouring is great for developing coordination and those first inklings of mathematical thinking, like volume and quantity. Plus, it's such a simple, grounding way to spend time together.
Little tip: Children are natural transporters, they love moving things from one space to another. Instead of expecting them to “keep it in the tray” (which is actually very hard, even for older children!), offer two containers, a tray and a bucket, or a couple of bowls, so they can transfer rice or pasta between them.
Young children learn with their whole bodies. Transporting, pouring and shifting materials isn’t being messy, it’s deep, physical learning. When we plan for the movement instead of trying to stop it, everyone feels calmer.
(Also setting it up in a contained area which is easy to sweep up after like on the cement, or kitchen or bathroom floor, also helps)
Activity 2: 🪜 Step Up & Step Down
How: Find a very low, stable surface, the bottom stair, a firm box, a sturdy step, or even a thick book taped securely in place. Invite your little one to step up, pause at the top, turn around, and carefully step back down. Stay close for support if needed, especially while they’re learning.
This is one of those activities that will naturally happen throughout your day, whether your child is stepping off a curb, climbing onto a stool, or navigating different surfaces. Understanding why these moments are important can help you better support the skills they are developing. So keep it simple and let them repeat it as many times as they want (and that you can wait for). There’s no need to encourage jumping, at 17 months, stepping down is exactly where they should be.
Why: Stepping up and down builds leg strength, balance, and coordination. It develops body awareness and teaches children how to manage small risks safely. That bend-and-lower movement when stepping down is actually the foundation for future jumping. Mastering something slightly challenging like this builds real confidence, the kind that carries over to stairs, curbs, and playground equipment.
Little tip: Young children aren’t trying to be daring, they’re wired to test their bodies against the environment. Instead of constantly saying “be careful,” stay close and describe what’s happening: “One foot up… steady… now turn… and down.” They’re learning through movement, repetition, and your calm presence beside them. And remember to cheer at the end, you will see how proud they are of themselves as their arms go up and the face lights up in a solid "yeah, I did it!"
Nursery Rhyme: Pat-a-Cake
Pat-a-cake, pat-a-cake, baker’s man,
Bake me a cake as fast as you can.
Pat it, and prick it, and mark it with B,
And put it in the oven for baby and me!
This is a classic that pairs wonderfully with play dough when little hands are ready, or as a special time to connect, tickle and cuddle. It’s a guaranteed giggle-generator!
Book of the Month: The Very Hungry Caterpillar
This beloved book is all about an adorable caterpillar’s journey through eating lots of different foods and, eventually, transforming into a butterfly. It’s filled with colorful illustrations and a simple story that captures little imaginations.
Did You Know?
All that pouring during play? It teaches early concepts of volume and control. Every drop, spill, and surprise teaches them a bit about the world, sort of an early peek into science.
Social & Emotional Skill Building
At this age, offering simple choices can be a wonderful way to engage your child’s growing independence. “Would you like the red cup or the blue one?” or “Do you want to read or sing together?”
These small choices help them feel valued and heard, fostering a sense of autonomy and trust. Your presence and these tiny interactions build emotional bonds that will guide them as they grow.
Remember, in the whirlwind of toddlerhood, it’s the simple, everyday moments that leave the most lasting impressions. You're crafting the foundation of trust, love, and learning with every hug, song, and playful moment shared.
You’re doing beautifully. 💛