1 year, 9 months old
Exploring the World with Wonder
Play ideas, a book, a song and a little encouragement for your 21 month old, from Maddie.
By Maddie, early childhood educator and Mum
4 min read · Updated
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Hello, wonderful parent!
Here we are, dancing into Month 21. It's a time filled with delightful discoveries, boundless energy, and a good bit of curiosity. Your little one might be keeping you on your toes, all while surprising you with new words, gestures, and those priceless giggles.
You’re likely witnessing their strong personalities blossoming alongside an increasing desire for independence! And perhaps realising how quickly time is flying and feeling the push-and-pull of wanting to hold onto those baby days just a bit longer. Remember, that curiosity and energy are part of what makes this age so special.
One of the most amazing things at this age is simply watching your little one explore the world on their own terms. There is something so special about quietly observing them and wondering what their busy little brains are thinking. It’s incredible to see how much of their personality already shines through and just how much they understand. Toddlers are learning so much, so quickly, and it can be truly mind-blowing to realise how capable they already are at such a young age.
You're doing such a tremendous job. When you are feeling like doing something a little more to build on that play and connection, here are your monthly activities.
Activity 1: Ball Drop Game
How: Find a small bucket and a collection of lightweight balls.
Let them drop/ small throw each ball into the bucket.
Celebrate wins, celebrate efforts and misses; level it up moving the bucket position.
(If your toddler has started loving throwing rocks, use this game to guide them to drop/ throw the rocks into the bucket.)
Why: This activity helps with accuracy and hand-eye coordination and to build those little muscles. Plus, who doesn’t love the satisfying sound of a ball dropping into a bucket? It’s these simple joys that build confidence and focus.
Activity 2: Follow the Leader
How: Take turns being the leader. You might hop, twirl, or stomp, crawl, chase and see if your toddler follows along. Then shuffle the roles! And don't forget to "freeze!"
Why: This game is more than physical, it's a wonderful way to encourage attention and mimicry, laying the groundwork for learning and cooperation. And you get to share lots of giggles together!
I've found its a great one when you need to get somewhere and you little one is either determined to walk, or you need them to walk. Its also so fun for older siblings, everyone can be involved taking turns to be the leader.
Nursery Rhyme: If You’re Happy and You Know It
If you're happy and you know it, clap your hands (clap clap)!
If you're happy and you know it, clap your hands (clap clap)!
If you're happy and you know it, then your face will surely show it.
If you're happy and you know it, clap your hands (clap clap)!
If you're happy and you know it, stomp your feet (stomp stomp)!
If you're happy and you know it, shout hooray (hooray)!
This song is a timeless crowd-pleaser! I love watching my toddler's enthusiasm as they clap and stomp along, it’s infectious. It also a great one to see if their still awake in the car, or to keep them awake for those last couple of minutes! The best part about "If You’re Happy and You Know It" is that you can make it work for anything. Feel free to make up your own actions or little instructions:
“If you’re happy and you know it, pack up your blocks…”
“…brush your teeth…”
“…wash your hands…”
It’s such a fun and playful way to turn everyday routines into a game, and toddlers love joining in once they start recognising the pattern of the song.
Book of the Month: Where is the Green Sheep?
This book, like many others will be a favorite in your collection for many years. Every time your child reads it, they may notice something new so don't be afraid to read it again and again.
You might hear your little one repeating familiar words or even trying to “read along” with you. This playful memorisation of words is actually one of the very first steps in learning to read! So amazing!
Did You Know?
Repetition isn’t just a regular part of toddler life, it's a crucial part of brain development. Repeated actions and familiar routines strengthen brain pathways, paving the way for new skills. That’s why they might love reading the same book, collecting the balls for the basket, throwing them out and then collecting them again or hearing the same song over and over…and over again!
Social & Emotional Skill Building
This stage is full of big feelings, and they’re looking to you for guidance. By modeling calm responses, even in those tricky times, you’re teaching them the art of coping.
Like when the milk spills or their block tower tumbles down, taking a deep breath and saying, “Oops, let’s try again,” shows them resilience and understanding. They’re always watching and learning from you.
Remember: It’s the heart of the everyday moments that matters most. Your presence, patience, and warmth are the true gifts you give to your child. You’re building a foundation of love and trust every single day.
You’re doing beautifully.