4 years, 10 months old
Little Explorers, Big Adventures
Play ideas, a book, a song and a little encouragement for your 58 month old, from Maddie.
By Maddie, early childhood educator and Mum
5 min read · Updated
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Hey there, wonderful parent!
As you step into Month 58 with your child, you'll likely notice how their world is growing and changing at an incredible pace. They’re explorers, even in the cozy corners of your home, and their creative energy is often seeming boundless, and they are still surprising you everyday. You probably look at them and can't believe they are your kid!
When I go back to my hometown and bundle the kids out of the car, standing in a street that feels so familiar, there’s always this little moment, where I feel like I'm pretending; just playing mums and dads. For a second, it’s as if I’m still the same person I was when I lived there… and I can't believe how much my life has changed 💛
While it’s not always easy to keep up, with this not so new, but always feels new life, remember that your presence is their greatest adventure. Every giggle, every curious question, and even every little mishap is shaping their world beautifully. You are their biggest hero, biggest role model and biggest fan. All they every really need is you, and you have been doing that beautifully!
Activity 1: Folding, cutting, paper play.
How: Grab some paper and explore the fun of folding! Start with simple folds, then see what you can create together; little hats, paper planes, boats, fans, or anything else you can imagine. If origami isn't your thing, try simple folds and cutting into the folds, opening it up again and discovering the shapes and patterns you've made. Don't worry about making it perfect; it's all about experimenting and seeing what happens.
Once you've made something, your child might like to decorate it with drawing, painting, stickers, or tape, or even cut it apart and stick the pieces onto another page to create something completely new. Let them take the lead and see where their ideas go!
Why: Paper folding builds fine motor skills, hand-eye coordination, and early problem-solving as children explore how a flat piece of paper can be transformed into something new. Whether they're making a plane, boat, hat, or simply experimenting with folds and cuts, they're learning through creativity, curiosity, and play. Just follow their lead and enjoy the process together. 💛
Bounce, Throw & Catch
How: Grab a ball (any size will do!) and head outside or clear a little space inside. Start by bouncing, throwing, rolling, and catching in whatever way feels fun. Roll it along the ground, throw it to each other, or aim for a bucket, wall, or another target. As your child gains confidence, add little challenges like counting how many bounces you can do in a row, catching with two hands or one, or seeing what happens when you throw the ball higher or lower. Keep it playful and follow their lead, there's no right or wrong way to explore.
Why: Ball play might look simple, but it's helping your child build hand-eye coordination, timing, strength, body control, and confidence with movement important foundations for so many skills they'll use later on. Most importantly, keep it light and fun. A few misses, plenty of laughs, and a little silliness are all part of the learning.
Song of the Month: Hokey Pokey
A classic, wiggly favourite that gets everyone moving!
Find this one on spotify or any streaming service (there are so many versions). Sing along and follow the actions; putting different body parts in and out, shaking them all about, and of course… turning around!
Always a fun one, which can take any turn with almost 5 year olds! Follow their lead, they will probably like to choose the body parts, sing it themselves, or happy to follow along to the recording. Its never about doing it perfectly, just having fun!
My eldest has been doing this at school lately, so we've all been doing it at home together; I've now found it a good little helper getting clothes on my youngest singing "put your right arm in, and your left arm in, and shake it all about..." the tune doesn't completely flow, but its helps for now.
Book of the Month: The Invisible String- Patrice Karst
This gentle, reassuring story reminds children that they are always connected to the people they love; no matter where they are. It’s such a comforting way to talk about separation, love, and feeling safe. Its a lovely one to revisit now and more in the future as its one of those books that grows with your child. Each time you come back to it, they often take something new from it; understanding it a little more deeply as they get older.
And like always, it’s not about reading every word perfectly; it’s about the closeness, the comfort, and those quiet moments together 💛
Did You Know?
Folding paper doesn’t just create shapes; it builds important sequencing and problem-solving skills. Every fold is a stepping stone in learning how to plan, think ahead, and even solve little everyday puzzles.
Social & Emotional Skill Building
Encourage teamwork language during your playtime. Phrases like, "We did it together!" or "Look how we kept the balloon up, great job us!" gently teach collaboration.
These small, seemingly simple words lay a foundation for trust and working with others. We’re helping them learn that sharing efforts can make tasks joyful and meaningful.
✨ Remember The days might sometimes feel long, but the years are truly short. Among the questions, the 'whys,' and the explorations, you're enriching their lives in ways that count.
You're not just keeping up; you're helping your child to blossom and grow with each shared moment. You’re doing beautifully, and your journey together is a work of heart. 💛